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writes:I like this guy and we have sent each other pics naked but our faces are not in them and we trust each other, but we stopped and are our conversations are getting dull, I want to know if I should send him a pic of me trying on underwear asking him for advice on if I should buy them to be flirty. I think this might be a good conversation starter and make things better for us but what do you think?
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reader, So_Very_Confused +, writes (27 May 2011):
 if you trust him why didn't you send him a picture of you naked with your face?
do you even KNOW this person? have you met them in real life?
if you have sent naked pictures and have nothing to discuss i doubt there is much of a relationship there to begin with.
pictures of a woman you are not seriously involved with trying on underwear is not flirty it's trashy...
at least in this old lady's opinion
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reader, Nithyanala  +, writes (27 May 2011):
 if a relationship is what you're looking for - or anything else that doesn't involve you getting used, actually - then this is a bad idea.
what would it achieve beyond giving him the idea that you're easy? trust is not the issue here what you are projecting to this guy is.
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reader, anonymous, writes (27 May 2011): That's completely stupid of you...You won't get anywhere outside the bedroom with this guy, if that's what you're aiming for. He will lose respect for you. It's not flirty at all.
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reader, CaringGuy  +, writes (27 May 2011):
There are way too many things wrong here!
First of all, if you two are interested in each other, why are you sending each other dirty pictures when you should be dating and actually meeting and talking to each other properly.
Secondly, the fact that since you stopped sending each other pics and your conversation has become dull, is proof that you two aren't really compatible together. Other than sending each other those pics, you have nothing else in common at all. That's why your conversation has become boring - there's nothing you have in common, or at the very least you're not dating enough and actually getting to know each other.
Thirdly, whilst dirty pics can obviously be fun, they are no grounding for a relationship. You can't start a relationship on the basis of those photos - because basically this guy and any other guy will merely see you as an object, or a porn star. They'll never actually see you for who you are, or treat you properly. You'll just be an object.
If you two want to fix things, you need to be dating, having fun and talking to each other about things. You need to find out what you have in common so you know you're compatible together. You really shouldn't be building something on photos. It won't work, as you're already finding out.
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