How can I figure out what's wrong with me? And why I don't have many friends?

A male age 30-35, *ifference writes:

I think it's more than not socializing enough. I know I should go out and meet more people. But even when I do people don't seem to "take" to me. How can I figure out what's turning them off? I don't get out much but even when I do I'm kinda shy. But I'm also picky about my friends, I don't won't bad ones so I watch them to see if they are ok. When I go to college I wanted to have good friend that I can count on and be around alot. All my school year I really don't have friend just people I talk, no one i can hang out with. It's hard to find someone you have something in common with. But I think it's me I fit in with no one people think I'm weird sometimes at school. Is it me, how can I find friends

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