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writes: Do you think a year if a long enough time to wait before becoming physically intimate with your boyfriend? It doesn't necessarily have to be sex, but just intimate touching? Thanks Reply to this Question
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reader, beenthere +, writes (2 November 2005):
i agree with other replies. it's fine when you're both comfortable. i slept with my partner not long after we started dating. we had known each other all our lives though so i suppose technically we'd waited over 20 years! but anyway, after two years, we've just moved in together. he proposed to me after only two weeks of the relationship and i said yes because we were both sure at the time. if you are ready, go for it. if not, tell your partner you're not and he'll wait if he loves you
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reader, anonymous, writes (31 October 2005): I completly agree with those comments, do intimate things when you are both ready, you'll know when it's right.I slept with my boyfriend two weeks after we met, and we're still together 8 yrs after so it goes to show ,but i have also been in other relationships where we were together for a while and only kissing took place.It never felt right with those guys but when it does - it's great!!
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reader, anonymous, writes (30 October 2005): it doesnt matter how long you are together. you just have to feel ready and with someone you love and trust. do what feels right.xx
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reader, Wendyg  +, writes (30 October 2005):
 Sex is all about the both of you, not just one person. I wouldnt even call it a waiting game as you so put it. If both partners are not happy about it then respect is needed. Without respect a relationship will not work. There may be a reason why someone isnt ready to be intimate and you cant put a timescale on it.. there is no right or wrong time to be intimate with a partner. Is there a reason why you are making someone wait ? If its just to test then i think perhaps they passed the test if they are still with you... but it should be like that, its about doing what the both of you want. If your happy to be intimate then dont hold back, but if your not ready then any partner should understand that and be with you because they want to be.
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