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writes: Is a female turning 30+ a bad thing in society?Are women over 30 a bad thing? Do guys prefer girls in there 20s because I know a few guys who ask out girls in there 20s. Where does that leave me? Reply to this Question
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reader, rainbows29  +, writes (26 January 2009):
Its not a bad thing, I am 35 yrs old and still pulling lots of guys, above my younger friends even. Its all about how you look, if you are attractive and in great shape, younger and older men will love you. Plus when you are an older woman , many younger men start looking at you as a sugar momma, lol.
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reader, TasteofIndia +, writes (26 January 2009):
 I've been reading all over the place that 30 is the new 20. Commonly referred to as the "Dirty Thirties", 30 is the ultimate age to be. By then you're out of this post-college limbo, trying to adjust yourself from being a young adult to an adult. Once you hit thirty, you're more comfortable in your own skin, confident, established and then you can REALLY shake things up.
30 is the ultimate age and I can't wait to hit it. Not to mention, I'm convinced that most people hit their peak hotness at 30. For certain, women hit that sexual peak of a new-found comfort with their body as well at 30 (guys know this). Guys love chicks in their thirties!
Love it, own it, rock it.
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reader, pastfirst +, writes (26 January 2009):
 NO age is a "bad thing in society".
Guys of all ages are looking for partners.
It doesn't matter if you're 20, 30, 40, or 50 (or more). You're alive and as such, are an important member of society.
Make the best of yourself, excercise and eat healthily.
Love yourself and others will love you, no matter what your age.
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reader, anonymous, writes (26 January 2009): Hi there I want to make this clear to you that once you get into your thirties you should avoid putting weight on and you will still have the same figure you had in your 20s, also men are still interested, trust me im 36 and I get interest from guys of all ages, yes even a guy who is 23 gives me interest at work so now don't worry about being over 30. Also, I have noticed that men like to comment about your age to see if it bothers you, don;t give them a reaction, just remain calm and put on a happy face then tell them you've got a hot date that night, that will make them jealous!!!(the guy who does this is most probably interested in you, he just doesnt realise its a poor chat up line). Believe you me, men are very much into playing games and it has taken me to get into my 30s to realise this.
Umm what else can I tell you, oh yes this is an important one, don't ever trap a man, if he is acting like he isn't interested and you start to chase him with calls, questions such as 'why arent you interested?', you are actually giving him what he wants, best thing to do is reverse the situation, if he goes quiet, you go quiet, then if he wants you enough, he will call you in the end.
I sound like a player but believe me it works.
You have got to look like you are cool, you have a life and you don't give a S***, remember that men are NOT attracted to women who look DESPERATE. All the best hun.
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reader, Yos  +, writes (26 January 2009):
 A bad thing? No not at all. But many guys will think that women in their 30s are 'serious' about finding a suitable father for their (potential) children, because of the ticking biological clock. This makes some men think twice before getting into such a relationship, because they know the pressure to 'commit' and have a future plan happens fast and with force.
Or in short:
- Girl in 20s = fun and simple, no big future plans need to be looked at
- Girl in 30s = expect to be moving in together and talking about kids before too long
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