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writes:Me and this girl i met a month ago have been talking a lot almost every day. well 2 days ago she out of the blue tells me she loves me. I'm like huh? she said i love you. i love everything about u. i like her but can't say love. Is a month too soon to tell someone you love them?
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reader, anonymous, writes (9 September 2009): Man u are young and most likely she is too. telling someone you love them change a relationship very much, not always for the better. Teen girls have a problem with thinking they love someone and making a habit of saying it without being sure. The only advice i have for you is to wait until your sure that u love her before you say it. but remember she is a teenage girl she is going to be very emotional wether u say it or dont say it back when she does, so try and be caring and gentle with your words whatever u decide to do. oh yea, please dont tell her you love her just to get laid, thats low.
one last note: if you do decide to tell her that you love her, after a passionate kiss is a good time to do so.
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reader, anonymous, writes (15 August 2009): well its nt too soon to tell her u luv her.
just ask your self these questions/......
. does she treat me with respect?
.do we trust eachother?
.do u feel incomplete without her?
.do you all have the understandment of eachothers opinions.,feelings,and thoughts?
im in the same situation i just dont know how to say i love him. in other words/so ima pray for both of us. me and you.
hope u find a way
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reader, anonymous, writes (12 August 2009): This is verified as being by the original poster of the questionThanks guys really helpful :)
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reader, Fatherly Advice +, writes (12 August 2009):
 Wow!!
Let me tell you what has happened from an outside perspective. Then I'll answer your question. Your girl just went way out on the limb and exposed herself to you by baring her feelings. She is pretty vulnerable in this position so don't hurt her. What she is saying is "I'm not playing games, I'm serious about you". She is hoping and praying that you will love her too.
O K now your answer. I told as girl that I thought I loved her the day we met. It worked out great in the end. At the time she told me she wasn't ready for a relationship. We were both totally honest with each other and we built a trusting relationship out of it. So is a month too soon? the game p[layers will tell you it is. I say don't deny your feelings be honest with yourself and with your partner. You know that you are not ready to say love right now. Do you think you will be ready soon? or ever? Tell her that. It is hard to say how she will react. Don't discount her feelings accept them as real and let her know that you believe that she loves you. Only in fairy tales is the timing perfect. For me the most exciting thing is a woman who is interested in me.
OK Ive rambled a lot. I hope you find this readable and helpful. And congratulations on a great friend who trusts you that much.
FA
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reader, Miss Karma Louise  +, writes (12 August 2009):
ok if this is her first serious realtionship with someone she is bound to act like this.
and i mean this in the nice possible way but she proberly doesnt love you as much as she thinks she does.
this is proberly sombody learning to understand the meaning of love and understanding what love is exactly.
i wouldnt worry to much about it.
just take it in your stride.
good luck x
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reader, eyeswideopen +, writes (12 August 2009):
 Not at your age, girls tend to be rather dramatic in their teens. Don't say those words until you can mean them.
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reader, anonymous, writes (12 August 2009): You tell them when you feel it, I think.
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