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writes:It all started back in high school. My girlfriend left me for a rich man. I was very upset. Next my girlfriend left me when I went to the cadet corps. She just did not want to even try to wait for me. I understand it, wait for two years is not easy.When I graduated from the Cadet Corps and entered the legal academy, I started communicating with a girl from Russia, She told me that she begins to fall in love, but very afraid that I am far, she did not want to communicate more. I was offended that she was unable even to communicate. Since my last girlfriend, we were together for half a year.The last four months she lived in my home. I went to academy at 8 am, then went to work, at 8 pm I came home. She did not work, she did not studied. She sat at home and not cook, not cleaning up, she only played computer games. All the houses I have done, after work and academy. It suited me. She has left me when I have forced she to cook pizza. I wonder, all girls such as these? Is there a girl in a world that no matter distance between people, the sums of money from these people and which can prepare pizza at least once in half a year?I repeat, I speak English bad, sorry if something is not clear.
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reader, kayla20  +, writes (12 March 2010):
 You just need to find the right girl, you have had bad luck in the past there are plenty of women out there that want the same as you
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reader, Tigerlily  +, writes (12 March 2010):
I totally understand your sadness and frustration. It's hard when you just want to find a good relationship and it keeps slipping away. I think you need to make better, wiser choices about the women you date. Take a good look before you give your heart away.
Let's take these one at a time. High school... this girl was clearly immature and materialistic. That gets better as you get older. Long distance relationships are really hard. So you had two girls shy away from those. Understandable. Sorry the russian girl wouldn't even talk to you, that's cruel. But some people are very uncomfortable with hurting someone's feelings, they don't have the courage for it, so they run away. The last GF moved in with you after 2 months (if I'm doing my math right). That's a bit fast. Then she sat around doing nothing. Well, you have to watch out for that sort of thing.
Going forward, don't try to get involved with girls far away. Stick to girls who are near and available. Watch them when you first meet them. Do they have ambitions? Do they keep a nice house? If you do nice things for her does she do them back to you? Most people will show you who they are in a few dates, if you are paying attention.
And yes there are lots of good girls out there. Just be patient.
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reader, anonymous, writes (12 March 2010): No not all girls are like this.
Sometimes you just have to go through a lot of crappy people until you find the one.
And even then you might not. But keep looking anyway.
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