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*lli100
writes:Well I'm 15 and I have a 15 year old boyfriend that is about to turn 16. We have been together for 9 months and We have had PROTECTED sex a few times and had no worries about it. But lately I have been getting pregnancy signs and I missed my period. I can't tell my parents or go to the doctor. And I can't think of a way to get a pregnancy test. It's extra hard because my parents don't even know I have a boyfriend, I would tell them but they don't allow me to date him because he is black and I am white. But I really love him so I can't just leave him. I have no idea what to do, PLEASE HELP.Oh and another thing is me and him split up for about 2 weeks before all this and i was talking to another boy that is 17.We hung out the whole day and i was on my period this day but then it ended that night. We both ended up spending the night at a friends house. We were cuddling then we both ended up with no pants on or underwear. He fingered me and ate me out. ew sorry. lol and we werent planning on having sex so he didnt have a condom on. BUT his thing was down there on my va-jj.This was about 2 months ago, and the sex with my real boyfriend was on March 14. and my last period was the day i was with the 17 year old. I talked to him and asked if there was anyway he could have gotten me pregnant but he denied it. But i am just worried cuz i have no idea who the dad is if i am pregnant.Soooooo i just need some help, Please.
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reader, anonymous, writes (9 April 2009): Well, to start I can feel your dilema. I found myself involved with my exhusband now but the love of highschool days. I came from a strict mexican, cathloic family, raised by the church. When I found that I was pregnant at 15, the only place i considered was Planned parent hood. They counseled me and gave me the options, not only that it they thourghly examine, test, and advise. They keep each case confidential, and for the most part give options without judgement. I would look into local affiliates, near you. Also you can only get pregnant while ovalating, this is 2 weeks in between periods. Best wishes, and communication is a valued key. Peace,
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reader, 2old4this +, writes (9 April 2009):
 First off you need to find out if you are pregnant first. I would doubt it if niether boys ejaculated inside you, but it's not unheard of to happen if someone ejaculates on the outside of the Va-jj as you said the 17 yr old could have.
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reader, anonymous, writes (9 April 2009): im just curious... why are you having sex when you're so young?
And btw... neither of the guys will take care of ur kid... u can put them in jail if you want since ur underage.
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reader, niki20 +, writes (9 April 2009):
 ok calm down, there are free clinics that could give you a bloodtest. call your local health dept. and ask. as for the father, after the baby is born (if you are infact pregnant) you can get a bloodtest done.
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