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writes:so its this boy that just turned 19 that likes me and im 14 so does tha age difference matter? he is soooooo sexy and fine i ant him soo bad but idk Reply to this Question
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reader, anonymous, writes (6 September 2008): My sister dated an 18 year old when she was 14.
He was a good bloke (nutjob driver but). It didn't last but it didn't do any of the harm that any of you guys are afraid of.
Just be sure to set some ground rules if you do go that route.
No sex. And if you must... for pete's sake keep your trap shut about it.
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reader, Jamer70  +, writes (5 September 2008):
 fact is in most cases age doesnt matter, but thats between two adults. Here, not to patronise, but your a kid and hes an adult. Nothing should happen here. Plus it doesnt sound like you like him for who he is really
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reader, Emilysanswers +, writes (5 September 2008):
Yes he's too old.
If you were 20 and he was 25 it would be fine. But you are not, you are 2 years under the age of consent, you haven't even started gcses yet!
As Ally said, I really don't think he's after you because he loves your personality. He wants to have sex with an underage girl.
Even if you went out with him and dated him for years, what's to say he won't get bored of you once you hit 16 and perve after another little school girl.
Good Luck!! xx
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reader, romance007  +, writes (5 September 2008):
Don't lose your virginity to unworthy guys. You will really regret later on when your true love finally appear in your life. Imagine when he will find out that you are no longer a virgin, the pain that he will go through.
My fiancee lost her virginity at 16. I just found that out last month. As her future husband, do you know how much pain I have to go through even though that I still do love my fiancee so much and I am still a virgin.
Promise yourself that you will not lose your virginity until after marriage. Safe it for the one who will truely love you and marry you for life. You are still very very young, there are many greater guys down the road who will appear later on in your life. Study well for now, don't even think about having a relationship. Relationship at 13 is just a distraction from your studies. You will understand what I am saying now when you get older. Don't make the mistakes that my fiancee has made in her past. For you don't want your future husband to suffer. Also, pray to God and Virgin Mary. Joing a church, know more people, there are a lot of great people in this world and they won't pressure you for sex.
Promise yourself, don't lose virginity until after someone marries you. What if you accidentally have a baby? It will ruin your entire life. Trust me. Keep your virginity. If your boyfriend insist on having sex with you, just dump him. Tell him that there are many better guys out there who will love you and will also wait until after he marries you.
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reader, romance007 +, writes (5 September 2008):
Don't lose your virginity to unworthy guys. You will really regret later on when your true love finally appear in your life. Imagine when he will find out that you are no longer a virgin, the pain that he will go through.
My fiancee lost her virginity at 16. I just found that out last month. As her future husband, do you know how much pain I have to go through even though that I still do love my fiancee so much and I am still a virgin.
Promise yourself that you will not lose your virginity until after marriage. Safe it for the one who will truely love you and marry you for life. You are still very very young, there are many greater guys down the road who will appear later on in your life. Study well for now, don't even think about having a relationship. Relationship at 13 is just a distraction from your studies. You will understand what I am saying now when you get older. Don't make the mistakes that my fiancee has made in her past. For you don't want your future husband to suffer. Also, pray to God and Virgin Mary. Joing a church, know more people, there are a lot of great people in this world and they won't pressure you for sex.
Promise yourself, don't lose virginity until after someone marries you. What if you accidentally have a baby? It will ruin your entire life. Trust me. Keep your virginity. If your boyfriend insist on having sex with you, just dump him. Tell him that there are many better guys out there who will love you and will also wait until after he marries you.
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reader, PsyCookie +, writes (5 September 2008):
 It would be a problem, yes, because you're still way underage. If anything sexual happens then he will probably go to jail.
And from the sounds of it, you're not there because of his "personality", so don't come crying back here saying that he used you.
But otherwise, look out for yourself.
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reader, teen000 +, writes (5 September 2008):
 Ya it acctualy is cuz the probleme is that a 19year old guy doesnt want the same things that a 14year old girl would want, i now it kind of sucks and all since hes hot but thats life girl! gd luck we've all been there
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