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*ittlej
writes:hi everybody please can somebody help me. i have been in my relationship with my boyfriend for 4 years and he keeps asking me to have a 3some with him me and another when, i keep saying yes but i really don't no if i should, he has done this before in the past but not while been in a relationship. i really want to make him happy and fulfill his fantasies or is that what it should be kept as, a fantasy
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reader, dapone 1 +, writes (19 January 2008):
 Hi Little j
I always ask myself when a question like this comes up, why on earth would your b/f want to share a bed with you and another woman when he is supposed to be in love with you?.
It is alright to have a fantasy about all sorts of different thing,I think most people do, but the reality is total different thing altogether.
I know one or two people who have done things on this line and in the cold light of day, they have felt ashamed of the events of the night before , and the guilt they suffer can be awesome, of course it is up to you what you decide to do, but i have always found that, instead of bringing people together this act will more than likely split you apart,I feel by your letter that you do not want to do this act, it is only for your b/f that you want to make happy, well sweet heart if you do not want to do it do not,tell him to keep it as his fantasy, he should also be considering your feelings, love is supposed to be a two way thing,he should be thinking of better ways to make you happy.
hope this will help you.
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reader, Uncle Trev +, writes (19 January 2008):
I cannot rule out the possibility of a lot of fun in extensions of relationships like this but the relationship has to be a very strong one in the first place.
If there is ANY doubt whatsoever in ANY of your minds about this then it is NOT for you.
Contrary to the belief that it would strengthen a relationship - if the relationship isn't more or less perfect with both parties willing to do this together, a threesome would potentially damage the relationship, possibly to an irrepairable state.
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reader, Debussy +, writes (19 January 2008):
 If you really want to, do it. if you're not sure, don't. Also, ask yourself, would he be happy if you wnated to sleep with him an another male ?
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reader, anonymous, writes (19 January 2008): If you have doubts about anything then the answer is NO! These are fantasies and leave them just where they belong in fantasy land. Please do not enter into something that you will regret.
take care
xx
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