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female
age
36-40,
*ari
writes:he loves me, i love him....been together for 3 years....engaged... as per custom we do not meet...after 6 months being apart, i see he has less time for me, he reads my mails and messages on orkut, but does not reply,at night he miss calls me so much so i call him (he cant phone or his parents will find ou we r in contact)....i feel like i have a storm within my heart, somehow it seems like i am only there to make sure he is happy..my relationship is starting to feel like it'sall about making sure "he's" happy. He doesn't seem to pay me the same attention,give the same affection and support that i givehim, and it's starting to feel unfair and botherme.i know that he's had some challenges in hisown life and maybe he just doesn't see what'sgoing on. So, i have decided to not make a big dealout of it. But,i know that something needs tochange... soon.how can i do this? how can i get him back like we were before? what can i do? Reply to this Question
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reader, anonymous, writes (19 January 2008): Engaged, as per culture, you do not meet, which culture is this sorry, but i dont know! Been together for 3 years, so why have you spent the last 6 months apart? Can you please fill in some of the gaps as i am trying to understand this one. If you are so dissatisfied and unhappy then why are you still engage to him? Is it because of your religion/culture? If you could let me know some more then maybe i can help.
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