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writes:Hi, Im 18 years old girl, and never been in a relationship before, so now i think it the time. Bt im scared and my family keeps on telling me that i should focus on my studies. I dont know if im making a right decision here becouse i always had a bad feeling about it. I want to know if it normal to feel like this and is it the right time for me to start dating n stuff? Reply to this Question
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reader, Shadow Rose  +, writes (13 August 2012):
 You should start dating when you feel you are ready to be in a relationship.
So many children in my old middle school would date, even though I knew for a fact that those sixth graders weren't ready, because they believed that was the predetermined age that they must start dating.
I waited till I was a junior in high school to start dating, because I wasn't ready, or interested (Yeah, right, nobody was interested freshman or sophmore year, I was ready by then! lol) but I just kinda did start dating when it just felt right.
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reader, Love_Guru403 +, writes (13 August 2012):
Well in America kids are dating at too young an age and I think it's somewhat stupid. You can start dating as long as it doesn't get in the way of your studies, that's what I do. It's perfectly normal to be scared about having a first relationship, I was. Your family is right, but so are you. If you are able to study AND be in a relationship, then go for it. Good luck! It should be fun!
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