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writes:So I like this girl she is Bi. We have been hanging out for a few weeks. She always says I'm like exactly like her and that I'm like a brother lolAnd she's dating this chick but today she sent me a text out of no where. She wrote " would you ever go out with a girl like me?"Then after I replied yes whyShe said. "I know. My GF wanted to tell if I rather see you over her"and she gave two reason for why she asked me..Like honestly I understand the conversation but I don't understand why she sent me this. Like is she interested in dating me or something.What are your thoughts on this? To me that second text sounds like she's been talking about me alot and her GF just got tired of hearing it or something..
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reader, anonymous, writes (15 February 2012): She obviously likes you and she must be thinking about you a lot and talking about you a lot too. Now, if you want to keep your heart and your dignity intact, I'd suggest that you do not go after her because she is not available. If she has strong feelings for you, and really wants to be with you, she will leave her girlfriend and talk to you about becoming a couple.
At present I'm afraid, all you can do is either wait for her to make her mind up/sort her thoughts out OR you can forget her and find someone else who is single and will make you happy. Best of luck.
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reader, k_c100  +, writes (10 February 2012):
 It sounds like you are right on this - she does sound interested and it sounds like she does talk about you in front of her girlfriend and the girlfriend is jealous.
But you cannot do anything about it, she is in a relationship so until she is single again nothing can happen.
Wait and see what happens, but dont pursue her while she still has a girlfriend because things will get messy.
I hope this helps and good luck!
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