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writes:Im so depressed its unreal, its taken over my life. Ive been in love with my mate for a few years. To the point where i cant bare to go to long without seing him. I feel lost, hurt and generally like lifes falling apart. I cant stop crying.We havent had a great past because people caused problems but some of our mates kinda realised we had feelings for each other, because of the problems he never admitted it but he seriously showed it.Hes the type of guy that had the confidence with his mates, male or female, will talk to them easily and have a laugh however when it comes to the final chase he has no confidence with girls. The only girl he ever asked out built his confidence up by constantly flirting with him, however she hurt him twice. Thing is hes never spoken to me easily, we met up alone once and neither of us knew what to say, he seemed abit shy and he has admitted to someone in the past he doesnt always know what to say to me. Yet he manages it with everyone else. Hes not the type of guy to go using people or anything.We also went out one night and started messing around having fun. I sat on his knee and he started cuddling me really tightly. Kept holding onto me, had his head on mine and in my hair. He did at one point say he was sorry for the awkward past and that im a great mate to him. however it was the way he had hold of me and where he was touching me and the way he was doing it. A bit like he was shy. He wouldnt normally do that with someone hes just messing around with and also we have the whole past so i really didnt expect it. He also took me home one night after i was ill, he was comforting me i know that but then he was holding my hand and stuff which there was no need to to. When he ran after me he grabbed me and hugged me round the waist but its where he had hands and the way he was doing it. And also when we hugged when we left he pulled me back when i went to left go and hugged me somemore and had his hands on my bum.Yet twice me and some mates have asked him to come out and hes said he would if he wasnt busy because he has been recently. But he said he would come but then didnt. Surely he would make the time to see me? its been ages since i saw him. Also his mates asked him to go out with them a while back and he chose them over us, whether he did the next time or not i dont know, theres no way i can say. But its wrecked me and i dont know what to think anymore. Please help!
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reader, YourDestiny11  +, writes (29 March 2010):
 Talk to him and tell him how you feel. He might not think you feel the same way...let him know you do.
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