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writes:I have been with my boyfriend for 2 years. I love him so much and ive never been like this before with anyone but Recently we have been arguing a lot and its getting more and more serious arguments. I believe in trust making a relationship work but i'm afraid ive lost all trust in him completely. He said he hasnt done anything like cheat on me or that and he wasnt like that but recently he has been wanting to go out on the town every weekend. We have been through soo much together and still got by and we are amazing together but something has changed. We used to laugh about people who wanted to go out all the time and drink and now he is becoming one of them. I've helped him out sooo much financially and emotionally as he lost his job last summer and since then hes always turned to me for help. He seems to think he isnt doing anything wrong but he has left me out in the city at 2 in the morning myself kidding on to me he is away home with my money so i have no way to get home. Its things like this that your boyfriend shouldnt be doing to you. I believe if he wants to be with me he wouldnt be doing silly things behind my back like trying to search for girls on the internet etc. The relationship should be me and him and nobody else should be involved but he involves his family and they only see one side of the story and they have went against me and its tearing us apart. He is changing more and more as time goes past but this only happens at the weekend when his brother is home from university. During the week he cant see enough of me and doesnt want to stop being with me. We dont argue anymore during the week and things seem to be more or less prefect its as if nothing has ever happened to us. But when the weekend comes and i feel that he is going out to spite me or to play with my head coz he knows im worrying about him doing silly things thats when it starts. I need help!!! lol i dont know what to do anymore? Should I give up and try move on with my life as hard as it seems? i cant even speak to him because at the weekends he always says he doesnt feel anything for me but confuses me because during the week he is fine with me. Has this happened to anyone else before?
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reader, YourDestiny11  +, writes (29 March 2010):
 Well you cant have a relationship without trust. He needs to earn your trust and if he cant do that then i dont see you two lasting.
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