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anonymous
writes:I don't know how to move forward...I am completely in love with this guy. We are really good friends and I always feel better when I am with him. I have never felt this way before about anybody. But he has a girlfriend and seems to love her. I don't want to tell him anything because I really don't want to hurt our friendship and I don't want to break them up. But don't know how much longer I can go on the way I am, everytime I talk to him it hurts me. It is affecting every part of my life. I don't know if he feels the same. What should I Do?
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reader, anon_e_mouse +, writes (10 February 2013):
 You do nothing. He has a girlfriend and "seems to love her" and "you don't want to hurt our friendship and I don't want to break them up".
FInd someone else.
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reader, anonymous, writes (9 February 2013): You have three options!
1. you tell him.
2. You move on.
3. You stay as you are.
Which one of those 3 options should you actually do? I can't decide that for you. There are many different possible outcomes for each option, you just need to choose the one you WANT to do and the one that will make you happy. If you want to tell him, you tell him. You only live once, no point in regrets. Whatever your gut is telling you to do is what you should do, And I KNOW that you prefer one of those options to the other two. Do it, be happy whatever the outcome. You're young and times a healer anyway! This could turn out great for you, or it could turn out not so great and you learn from it and move on. Both of those are beneficial.
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