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In love with my best mate, how should I approach this?

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Question - (13 September 2007) 2 Answers - (Newest, 15 September 2007)
A male , *raig21 writes:

hello. i need some advice. im in love with my best m8 but dont know how or if to tell him. we get on great always laughin even have conversations that we both admit we wouldnt have with anyone else. im sure he must know i atleast fancy him. the other night he stopped at mine as he does quite a lot. he sleeps at bottom of my bed. he was asleep so i thought and i put my hand on his crotch to see if he reacted he cetainley did react as his crotch got bigger so i just left it there. but all of a sudden he shrugged my hand away and turned over. in the morning he never mentioned anything and carried on as normal so i was to scared to talk about it. we spend all are spare time together and it realy hurts me not knowing if he has feelings for me sureley if he didnt he would have had a go at me for playing in bed with him, or is he just as scared as me. thing is hes the only guy i have ever even thought about like this i still fancy girls but i no with my m8 it is definitley love. im so depressed over this please help

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A male reader, Tommy7 United States +, writes (15 September 2007):

Talk to him about his views on gays.

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A male reader, aim Philippines +, writes (13 September 2007):

aim agony aunti guess it's best if you try to grab hold of an opportunity when you can sit with him and talk; for example - dinner. Tell him you're gettin this weird awkward feeling/aura towards each other and eager to clear the space. Then start by stating what and how you feel. Tell him that you have feelings for him and it will be just up to him if he'll act on it or not. And if he's really your best mate, i'm sure you wont have any problems figuring things out. ;)

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