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writes:My wife passed away few years ago. I lived with teenage daugter. I did not like to make new connection with other woman. Now I am in love with prostitute. She lived and worked in another country. She actually doing her job but I am in love. I am so much older than she and probably not atractive for her without money, but I am stucked and totally mad. Help!
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reader, asrl1962 +, writes (16 January 2012):
asrl1962 is verified as being by the original poster of the questionBanshee tell me something that J want to do.After that J could still go again like a regular customer or not.Bit J still could be in love like you are in love with someone from past or someone from some book.probably j dont want to be in love with person who could be for real my lover.Thanks
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reader, Danielepew  +, writes (15 January 2012):
 It is quite possible to fall in love with a prostitute, because they are women, and they have virtues as well.
Assuming you're really in love, and not just hooked up on her because of the food this cook gave to a hungry man, you would need to know whether she could actually love you. You also would need to know whether you could live with her in the future, knowing what she used to do for a living. Not every man can do that.
Her job is not nice. Here's this older man who could get her out of it. I wonder if she would not seize the opportunity, rather than embrace the man.
You're so much older than her as in how many years? The relationship would suffer from that as well.
The odds are not in favor of this relationship.
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reader, wiseoldman  +, writes (15 January 2012):
Her job is to make you think you are handsome and wonderful in bed, and she will do this as long as you have the money to hire her. Run.
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reader, anonymous, writes (15 January 2012): Stay away from her completely OP, as Basschick said you're in love with an illusion and in love with someone based on a business transaction.
You're mixing up business and pleasure and getting your wires crossed. What you're doing is the same as thinking your therapist is your best friend because they listen to you and help you with your problems just like a good friend would but they're not your friend, they're doing their job just like this prostitute is.
Stay away from her, get over her and spend time getting over your wife properly OP, you're still not emotionally past your loss or you wouldn't have connected so deeply with the first woman to give you sexual attention. Perhaps it would be a good idea to go for grievance counselling and find a way to cope with your loss. That way you may be able to get into a place mentally where you are ready to connect with other women. First and foremost stay away from this girl, she will not bring you happiness and has nothing to offer you in that way.
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reader, Basschick  +, writes (15 January 2012):
 You are in love with an illusion. You have lost your wife and you probably have not connected with another woman or have had the energy or ability to do so. The prostitute has filled in the gaps, even though it's on your dime you are so craving the attention and warmth and okay, sex from a woman you are willing to overlook the elephant in the room that is screaming these words 1) You are too old for her....2) She is only interested in you because you pay for her services....3) She is probably carrying a number of possible diseases such as Hepatitis C, HIV and is probably working to support her drug habit....4) The longer you get hung up on this illusion, the less chance you have to meet another woman in your age group that would be a much better match for you and still give you what you are craving. This relationship will never go anywhere so please save your money and your time and start looking for someone in the real world.
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