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I'm worried that I am gay!

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Question - (12 March 2010) 4 Answers - (Newest, 6 May 2010)
A male Ireland age 26-29, *loverally writes:

please help me cos i am very worried about this i am 13 i a am worried that i am gay because i get erections thinking about girls but i get that excited feeling every time i see a man and every time i masturbate it takes me a while to get arouse when i think about girls please reply

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A male reader, Harry13 United Kingdom +, writes (6 May 2010):

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Your only 13, it doesn't necessarily mean anything. Did you have any male touch you sexually when you were younger? That can implant gay tendecies in males. If not, just try to stick to girls, you may find as your body developes and changes you grow into it. You've got so many hormones raging right now anything is likely to turn you on. Don't sweat it too much. Even if you are eventually gay, there's nothing wrong in it and you just have to accept what God gave you.

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A male reader, Boonridge McPhalify United Kingdom +, writes (13 March 2010):

Boonridge McPhalify agony auntyou are quite young and things are very unstable with preference during the mid teens, the key is which produces stronger feelings and more satisfaction when you masturbate?

you have your answer (for now...)

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A male reader, LessonsLearned United States +, writes (13 March 2010):

Your only 13, it doesn't necessarily mean anything. Did you have any male touch you sexually when you were younger? That can implant gay tendecies in males. If not, just try to stick to girls, you may find as your body developes and changes you grow into it. You've got so many hormones raging right now anything is likely to turn you on. Don't sweat it too much. Even if you are eventually gay, there's nothing wrong in it and you just have to accept what God gave you.

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A female reader, anonymous, writes (13 March 2010):

I think that you're a bit young to figure it out yet. A lot of people feel confused at your age about who they like. Being gay is not a bad thing and you should give yourself more time to see who you like and end up with in the end.

If you're really gay then approaching or being approached by men will get easier for you. If you are straight, you might end up with a girl. It sounds like you could also be bisexual.

I consider myself straight, but I get a few girl crushes now and then (in total 3 in my life). But I've never been with a girl, only men. Just don't worry about it yet, don't panic. You will probably figure it out with your first partner. Don't rush into any conclusions and enjoy life however it turns out. Good luck!

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