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writes:Hello dear eaders, well i'm 22 and my GF is 19, we are together 5 months.We have sex 2-4 times per day each 2-3 days.And i didn't look at the watch, but maybe 1 sex act is like 40-50 minutes...so i wanted to ask is it normal? or it's addiction.We don't complain we like it.because i read that lot's of topics that couples have sex 1-2 times a week.So that scared me a bit.Thank you for your answers Reply to this Question
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reader, doom +, writes (16 December 2009):
doom is verified as being by the original poster of the question thank you for your answers))
yes we are happy, and eve more she sad that she would like much more=) and yes we are doing lot's of activities,tennis theatre, museum,swimming...etc =) we even cook at my place together=))
Tanks again for your asnwers =)
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reader, TasteofIndia  +, writes (16 December 2009):
 Hey, you're totally normal. And you've only been together for 5 months, so the excitement is all still there! After awhile, you may slow down a bit... but if you never do, CONGRATULATIONS! As long as your rendezvous aren't getting in the way of the rest of your life (making you miss work, forget picking up your Mom from the hospital, etc.), and you're both happy, you are completely normal. No worries!!!
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reader, anonymous, writes (16 December 2009): Get involved in other things other than sex. Volunteer, Get second jobs, Go to the movies etc. sooner or later, you will get tired of having sex several times a day.It gets old, believe me.
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reader, anonymous, writes (16 December 2009): Totally normal for people who are in love to go about it as bunnies. The 1-2 times a week is for those with lower sex drive, been together for several years etc. When you just met (yes 5 months get defined as "just met") it's normal to not do anything but have sex. If the two of you have high sex drives and stay in love for a long time (that depends a whole lot on the person) you could keep this up for years.
It's not addiction unless you do it because you feel you have to, or out of habit, or because you feel you can't go without. If you do it because you like it, and don't feel the need to do it when you have days where you dont want to, then it's fine.
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