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writes:can you change the person you are?i feel like im not a very nice person. im so selfish sometimes, even my mum says iv got a hard edge.i seem to use people for what i can get.i really dont mean to!!!i know this sounds a bit deep but im 19 and dont think iv 'found who i am' yet.does that make sense????is there any way of finding who you are as a person????i think i think about it too much but i dont think i actually know what my personality is. i feel like most of the time imfaking it.sorry if this sounds absurd!!! Reply to this Question
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reader, rcn  +, writes (2 October 2007):
 It doesn't sound crazy. Many people go through a period where we begin questioning who we are, what we're suppose to be doing differently, and how to get there. It's normal. The truth is, you have a lot to offer, you're just not tapping into your potential in doing so. How long has this behavior been going on? Also please give an example of a time you thought your behavior was taking advantage of someone for your own gain.
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reader, baybee-x-sparkii +, writes (2 October 2007):
 you can change how you feel about urself... maybe thinking about what your about to say/do can stop this hard edge... and it doesnt sound deep... coz im doing exactly the same thing... think about the person you would like to become eventually and if ur thinking of definetely changing then model yourself on that... everybody is unique and we all have off days... it just cant be helped...
hope this helps
sparkii x
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