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writes:I know this will sound like a really stupid question, but I'm really having difficulty finding a boyfriend. I've been single for over a year, and haven't even met any potential boyfriends in that time!I get really lonely as all my friends have guys all the time and I'm always the single one.What can I do to try and meet potential guys? Reply to this Question
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reader, anonymous, writes (19 October 2007): Hi,If what you really want is love, start showing love to others without expectation and, before you know it, it'll come back to you. If what you want is someone to take you out, take yourself out. No one can give you more than what you first give to yourself. Love yourself and there'll be guys lined up down the block to love you. Take care of yourself and men will want to provide for you, not because you need them to but because they want you to need them. It's a funny dynamic but it's what you don't lack that comes to you in abundance. Share love, be love, love yourself and your lonely nights will come to an end. KVHttp://thewaitbook.blogspot.com
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reader, anonymous, writes (2 October 2007): Its not a stupid question! But you may be thinking about finding a boyfriend too much. Love seems to come along when you least expect it. So for now, concentrate on going out with friends, maybe you could join a new club or activity, just get out there and have fun!
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reader, leanne.od +, writes (2 October 2007):
 well, whenever you look for something you don't find it. it's when you're not looking for it that it finds you.
join a group that interests you, that way you'll have something in common. men in bars/clubs are usually after one thing so i'd suggest steering clear.
i've met a guy on-line, using facebook.com - it's not as tacky as a chatroom and you meet loads of genuine people.
just be yourself and love will find you.
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reader, kenny +, writes (2 October 2007):
 Try to steer clear of alcohol fuelled places like pubs & clubs. Invariably people who have had alot to drink are not themselves and are after one thing. The most likely places would be in the workplace, at college or an evening class, at the gym is another good one. At these sort of places you share a common interest. Don't be in to much of rush to meet someone, your time will surely come, probably when you least expect it.
Good luck x
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