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writes:i feel like im not good enough in bed for my guy. we have got an amazin sex life but i hate going on top because im conscious of my tiny boobs.whenever i try and go on top he always pretends he likes it then about 2 minutes later says roll over!!!plus im rubbish at blow jobs and hand jobs!!!i feel like im such an inadaquate girlfriend and hes gonna go somewhere else if i dont change.i also hate him going down on me because im scared it will taste horrible for him.also i worry that when we have sex he thinks about other women.i hate it.i get so jealous.
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reader, anonymous, writes (6 October 2007): the first time i have sex with my bf was pretty awkward until i confided to a friend.and she told me that whenevr u do sex just concentrate and put away all your inhibitions.and it does work!communication works best.try to tell him what position u like best and ask him too what makes him happy then meet halfway
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reader, anonymous, writes (3 October 2007): You need to remember only one thing. If he gets hard he's turned on by you.If a guy is not turned on by a girl he cannot get hard - it really is as simple as that.Getting you to roll off him could be because he is worried about bruising. I find I can only last the same time before worries about an accident take over .it has happened before and if the hard penis is accidentally bent it hurts like hell.So dont worry, he's into you, you're English but dont lie back and think of England, that route will only lead to him eventually wondering if he is better off with someone who likes sex. Take it easy and enjoy it, if the chemistry is there the rest will follow.
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reader, anonymous, writes (2 October 2007): The only reason he tells you to roll over is because he wants control. Everyone likes different things during sex. My husband likes me on top better, and I like it better too. But I have huge boobs, and I am self conscious about them because they're so large & of course being real, they're not perky..All of my girl friends hate being on top. I have heard that from so many women. I guess I like having the control & my husband is submissive, so it works for us that way. I can't even give a blow job because my mouth is tiny and I can't breathe through my nose because I was born with a deviated septum. I am sure he likes you blow jobs. Most women won't even do it. As for him thinking about other women, why do you think this? If there's no reason for it, put it out of your mind.
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reader, CynthiaRenae  +, writes (2 October 2007):
Oh sister you're thinking way too much into this! How are you supposed to enjoy sex if you're thinking about this stuff all the time? OK the roll over thing, guys just like that position. And going down on you? He wouldn't do it at all if he thought it tasted bad. If you wanna make sure he's not thinking of other women and you're worried about being inadequate, play some games. Ask him his fantasy and act it out, if you're comfortable with it. Ask him "if that feels good" or "what do you like?" Talk to each other and feel each other out. It takes practice to be good. Keep it up! Don't worry so much about how you look. Guys don't see us the way we see ourselves. you're obviously sexy enough to have sex with right?
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