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male
age
41-50,
*revor
writes:Is sexual compatibility important in a relationship?I’m a guy who’s 24 years old and I’m still a virgin. The reason why I’m still a virgin is because I’m abstaining from sex till marriage. But people keep telling me that no one will wait for me, that sexual compatibility is too important. However I’m so confused on this matter, because couldn’t you not learn how to become sexually compatible after your married?
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reader, anonymous, writes (13 March 2007): What makes a healthy relationship is not how compatible you are, but how you deal with incompatibility. No two people are 100% compatible. You just have to learn to make a few compromises, adjustments and be open and honest with one another.
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female
reader, anonymous, writes (13 February 2007): Having said that (same person from previous post, by the way), it has been tough to find a partner who's willing to wait. I don't know if you've had any trouble with women, but I'm having heaps of problems telling men I meet that I'm saving sex till marriage. Some of them practically leave skidmarks.
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female
reader, anonymous, writes (13 February 2007): I'm with you Trevor, I'm 24, also waiting until marriage. It's just how I believe sex should be and I do think that people can learn to become sexually compatible after marriage. If people have sex before marriage then sex can get in the way of true feeling, I think. You're blinded my what you think is love but really its the euphoria of great sex, and when your sex life starts to get boring you realise, "Oh s****, we've got nothing else in common." So that's why I'm waiting. get to know each other in an emotional, loving way first and then you can learn about one another sexually.'
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female
reader, Cool Cucumber +, writes (12 February 2007):
 'Are many women into abstaining from sex till they are married? posted 10th feb. Exactly the same sorta question asked...see my answer on my column for this question.
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