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female
reader, Basschick  +, writes (7 September 2007):
 Change your phone number. Block his e-mails. Don't answer his text messages. Lock your door. Don't answer it if he comes over. Or move. There are ways to avoid an old lover. You just have to really want to.
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reader, duce00  +, writes (7 September 2007):
 TRY TO USE LOWER CASE FIRST OFF!!
It feels like your shouting at us when you use all caps. See how much nicer reading this text is? Ahhhhhh
Sorry dear, but despite our best efforts we lack the psychic ability to understand problem with out any information. You will have to fill us in better. Dont be ashamed, theres very little that would shock the folks here.
This is a really great site with many wise people to help you out. Give your post another shot. Im sure you will get some good help.
Duce
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female
reader, Jualsy  +, writes (7 September 2007):
 Are you suggesting that you are under his control here??? Victim syndrome???You got into this situation by making deliberate choices, so why not make another choice?? Is this harrassment? Deal with it. Does he not understand what you want? Explain it more carefully.Take control and deal with this....don't expect anything from anyone, you cannot control others....only you.Hope you have good results.
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female
reader, anonymous, writes (7 September 2007): restraining order.
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female
reader, eyeswideopen +, writes (7 September 2007):
 Not enough info, my dear.
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