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male
age
30-35,
*adBaz
writes:There's this girl and i really like her! When i see her i really want to talk to her but then i finally get to her and i get really nervous and don't know what to say. all i get to say is Hi and thats it and walk off! I was going to ask her out the other day but i was too nervous! what should i do?
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reader, Helhel +, writes (31 October 2007):
 Don't just jump straight in there and ask her, you might scare her off.
Get to know her as a friend first. Use msn or another way of talking to get to know her better.
Personally i prefer a guy that can make me laugh, and cheer me up. Send subtle hints to her first. Maybe even compliment her, it's a great way of getting a girl to feel warmth to you
good luck
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reader, anonymous, writes (4 October 2007): Well, I Have somewhat the same problem except I'm a girl. Be yourself and you might think that doesn't matter but it does. Make some small talk and get her laughing. Don't rush things let it go at its own pace. For me I like it when someone can make me smile when I am in a crappy mood. Eventually you will get more and more comfortable around her and it will go from there. Hope this helps.
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reader, rcn  +, writes (3 October 2007):
 approach her as a friend. you don't have to just jump and ask her out right then. talk to her, say hi, how was your weekend, just small talk. this will give you an opportunity to get to know her better and start making you more comfortable to talk about other things.
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