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writes:Hey ok ive wrote here before about a guy that me and some others thought really liked me and then when he was asked he denied it but still continued to show it. For some reason he would talk to be on msn but i had to start the convos and if we were to meet up i had to arrange it, although recently he had got a bit better with me. His mate also added me and was out to find out who i liked and i found out she was out to set us up together. Thing is a lot of you have said your unsure as to why he behaves this way and some think he could like me but others think he may not however you've all said the bets way to to ask him outright. i cannot do this as i never know if the answer im gonna get is true as he is different everytime. But tbh would it be better if i just asked him to meet up with me one day as friends and hope he will and then just see how he is and continue waiting till i get hurt even more when he finally gets a gf or something or shall i simply send him a message saying that i love him, he knows that anyway but its never come from me, ive told him before when people have said stuff that i like him but im just in to much of a mess now. i still dont understand why im treated so diferently by him cuz other girls like him n he dont like them and he doesnt treat them like this hes just normal and tbh i just wanna tell him outright, the thing is...what if he hates me for it.... what shall i do
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reader, jessica-lea +, writes (16 November 2009):
 hi, yeah, dont tell him that you love him, something as simple as that my have a bad effect on the way he reacts to this... it will scare him off ...
I think that the best way to do it is to go out as friends somewhere casual and usual. Then maybe if you start talking the subject may come up. This way the conversation will be gradual and and you will both feel confortable...
just tell him how you feel :D
I hope that helps :D
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reader, CaringGuy +, writes (16 November 2009):
You need to talk to him yourself to get an idea of what he wants. Don't tell him you love him, that might scare him off before you've gotten to know him. Instead, tell him you want to get to know him more and ask him on a date. Make it as clear as possible so he can understand. He won't hate you for it at all.
If after this he says no, then move on because he's wasting your time.
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