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writes:What is the normal time to get over a six month relationship after a man breaks up with you. its been a week and i still want him back but he says its done. we agreed to start over as friends but i back out of that because i know i still love him and will try to make him come back but i don't want to play games. help
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reader, anonymous, writes (26 November 2009): I just got out of a six-month relationship yesterday. It's really difficult-- I did something wrong, and he broke up with me. I feel awful for the things I did, and today I tried to make contact with him. I also sent him a letter apologizing for the things I said/did to hurt him. He hasn't responded, and probably won't. It hurts, but I have to move on. If I can do it, and millions of other women, you can too. Just realize that he's one of millions of men, and you'll find the right man someday. Just be patient, and use this time to focus on yourself.
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reader, Elainey  +, writes (16 November 2009):
I will say usually it takes at least a year if you really love him very deeply, and until you find your mr right, you will then be totally freed from him.
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reader, imogen1068  +, writes (16 November 2009):
 no one can say when you will get over him. for some it takes long, but some do it quicker. it depends on how much you loved him, getting over people is really hard, but you got to take small steps at a time. you may want him back but hes the one who broke up with you so let it go and try and move on. it will be hard, iv been through it and it wasnt nice but in the end i done it, it took me a year but now i have found someone right, im now a stronger person and in time you will feel better. good luck x
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reader, Muscle and Sinew +, writes (16 November 2009):
 know one said love is gunna be easy, especially if it was 6 months, a yr, or more. I'm not here to tell you to move on. I know how bad it hurts. And I'm sorry that you and every woman and man, go through this. But only time will ease the emptiness. I'm currently married, and I went through so much crap to find the man I'm supposed to be with. I hope you find someone who will love you for you, and not play games. Don't worry hun, he is out there!!!
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reader, CaringGuy +, writes (16 November 2009):
It will take time. One of the things nobody ever says it to get over a break up just takes time. Certainly more than a week. It will take as ong as you need it to. That could mean a month, it could mean a year. I would suggest to you that he won't come back, so it's better to move on and make sure you're mixing with other friends. If he wanted you, he would be with you. The more you try to get him back, the longer it will take for you to get over him.
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