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writes: i am suspicious of my partner. he texts someone a lot, keeps his phone with him and lately has been having nights away (UNCONTACTABLE)i opened a credit card statement which showed a £52 bunch flowers. I managed to re-seal it, but mentioned this florist to my partner. He denies anything to do with this floristand has now got rid of the credit card bill
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reader, anonymous, writes (16 December 2006): i would definatly be suspicious. the best thing to do is just confront him about it. see how bad it really is, whats going on, and after that, decide what you want to do.there is no point in being in a relationship and then being with someone else at the same time. if he likes this other person enough, he should be in a relationship with them. it might hurt you now, but it will hurt you longer if it gets drawn out.
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reader, Sexybum  +, writes (16 December 2006):
 Hiya
To be honest I don't blame you for being suspicious. It really does seem that your suspicions are justified. You have seen it with your own eyes.....
Because he clearly does know about the florist and just why would he deny knowing about them. I think you have to tread carefully here...
How long have you guys been together and if he has played away (which by what you have said it seems as though that is what is happening here) what do you want to do about it? Would you want to try and work things out with him or would you want to walk away? If you did want to walk away would you find that easy to do?
I think you've come in search of confirmation for something that your whole gut is telling you is true.... From what you've wrote I would say that yes I do think he is definatly hiding something big from you.... I think he's playing away. What we need to do now is figure out what you want to do about it...............
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