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writes: im a 26yr old guy who is straight and has a lovely girlfriend of 6 yrs. Sounds good so far yeah. Well I am struggling to come to terms with who I am or what I am how I look.Me and my girlfriend have often played in the bedroom dressing up etc inc make up she has even bought us a matching pair of thigh boots! It's good I like it. But now I am freally wanting to wear make up and slightly femm clothes and shoes! It makes me feel good guess I kinda hide behind them! I want to do this in publicNeed Help!Will this offend people?Is it wrong to feel like this or want to do this?Is there a level to take it to?Should I just Ignore it all together?Much Thanx !x Reply to this Question Share |
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reader, cfliberal +, writes (9 May 2006):
It's not wrong to feel this way, but you do need to be prepared for people's reactions. Not everyone is as liberal as I am! Your best bet if you want to try this in public is to ask your girlfriend to accompany you to a a gay/tranny bar or a nightclub that is known for being welcoming to gays/lesbians/bis/trannies. That way you'll fit in and won't have a lot of disapproving glances. Wanting to do this does NOT mean you're gay. It's just a preference that some people have.
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