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writes: im worried that when, next month, my boyfriend goes on holiday to spain, he will cheat on me, just because he will be far away and probaby thinks that i will never find out and that its fine.He doesnt come across that way but i have found that he has talked to some girls sexualy behind my back, but he still denied it when i knew for a fact that he did. Should i just trust him? I dont know what to do but i know that i dont want to loose him just because i am worrying about something which might not even be on his mind! well please can some one help me out and answer as soon as possible!thankyou xxxx
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reader, anonymous, writes (9 May 2006): If you hadn't of mentioned about him lying to you I would have said that you have nothing to worry about. His lying though is cause for concern.
Why is he even going away with out you?
Going on holiday where sex is so much more available is a VERY tempting thing for most people.
I remember when I was a teen I went away with a group of lads and I spent the whole time wishing I had gone somewhere a bit quieter with my girlfriend. I was slightly tempted, but I've always hated one night stands and that alone put me off from doing any thing.
Can you trust him. Hmm. That would depend on his past, his age, his maturity and your relationship.
If he does go away without you, and he comes back saying nothing happened. How are you going to react? Are you going to feel insecure and worried? Won't this lead to problems? You might accuse him of things but you will never have any evidence unless he comes clean.
You know this guy best. You know his views towards sex and you know best whether or not he will go along with a holiday fling given the opportunity.
I hope you can sort through things and it works out ok.
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reader, soletshearit +, writes (8 May 2006):
 Your boyfriend shouldn't be talking with other girls in the way he has, its a type of emotional betrayal which is probably the reason you are feeling so insecure about his holiday. You need to sit him down and talk about your feelings and tell him that you are worried about him going away and tell him that you really want him to stay faithful...you won't send him with a good heart if you feel you can't trust him and I know that you would like to but you can't help feeling that way...more likely than not it is caused by the texts which he has denied...if he is mature enough he will understand your feelings.
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