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writes:I had been dating this guy who I met online back 2014, we talked FOREVER and got to know each other so well, we got along, we agreed on everything, he was perfect for me.. He admitted he loved me over the phone (during those 5am calls that lasted 10 hours) we were inseparable. He admitted that I was the first person he really truly loved etc... well we were together for about 5 months, until he turned around and said that I deserve better... he had a bad past, did bad things, and acting badly for a short amount that we had dated (it was stupid stuff like not texting or calling me back for days, he also had depression with certain things) but we worked through it, even if i felt hurt, I loved him. So I tried my damn hardest to make it work.Well, my current issue right now.. we talk 24/7, we have been broken up for about 6 months now. I miss him so much! hes moved about 3 hours away for a new job opportunity, i feel so heart broken, I want to move on, but I love him so much still. Im stuck because I want a boyfriend but I know no new relationship will fix how I feel or help me move on.. we still have long late night phone calls, use a billion X's after every message, he admitted that he still had feelings for me, and when he comes back down to London, he knows that all the feelings will come back. He even says he misses me, what do I do? I want him back so badly but I know he isn't good for me cause of the 'going missing' not texting or even turning up to stuff we have planned. I can't get him out of my head and I'm not sure what to do. I just wish we never broke up. Its been so difficult since hes left that I find myself sitting in silence just thinking about him all the time.
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reader, anonymous, writes (11 February 2017): This is verified as being by the original poster of the questionSo little update: we got back together, he moved back and we were great.... for the first 3 weeks. he then kept cancelling plans. ignoring my texts and calls, smoking weed and doing god knows whatever else. Skyping some other girl who lives in America, giving her all the attention but still ignoring me. We broke up and I never plan on getting back with him. Thank you everyone for all the advice! I guess it just wasn't meant to be, which is ok too. but thanks again :)
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reader, anonymous, writes (21 December 2015): i also have a friend who i love a lot we only talk sometimes but i still have feelings for him he knows it and he gets angry if i bring up this i think you should date him again
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reader, Been there Now over it  +, writes (21 December 2015):
I'd get back together with him. The level of communication you describe is rare between two adults and should be valued. One of two things will happen: Either it'll work out or you'll figure out that he isn't the guy for you after all. But you don't want to be kicking yourself far into the future because you didn't give this a chance. Good luck! I hope it works out.
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reader, Dodds  +, writes (21 December 2015):
 why don't you get back together as I see no big bad red flags. It will help both of you learn each other and decide how relationship compatible you both are with each other
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