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writes: Okay so me and my girlfriend have been together for 2 and a half months and every minute i spend with her is fantastic but we met outside of school and having both recently started the academic year in different schools in the year she is starting her courses and i am taking my GCSE exams it doesnt leave much time for us to spend together anymore. We manage to see each other 2 or 3 times a week 4 if we're lucky but one of these is always in a big group at the place where we met (its like a drama group thing) and being there it's hard to talk because we are always needed. But when we manage to get time alone we always seem to end up doing sexual things, we are both under the age limit but have not had sex, but the thing is i feel like with going back to school we have drifted apart slightly and i would like to find a way to get back to normal, i would like to do somehting for my gf but im just not sure what i can do. I dont want it to be sexual as i think we do too much of this and i dont want our relationship to be fully sexually based and this will come in time, i have the whole of sunday to spend with her from morning to night but i need ideas on new things we can do or just something to keep us entertained as i dont want this relationship to become boring where we are always doing the same thing in a certain order as we have drifted into doing since going back to school. Does anybody have any ideas as to what we can do and to how i can let her know how much she means to me? I dont particularly want to come across as to soppy as i think this may push her away or have the opposite effect as to what i want, I hope you can help me thankyou. - btw i am 15 and she is 14 if it helps, thankyou so much in advance Reply to this Question
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reader, Yuna~  +, writes (26 September 2006):
 I agree with Toria that you are the one who will know best. But base on what my girl friends say vs. what other guys say, I gather guys assume girls will like a day out with planned activities like rides, movie, dinner, etc... But most of my girl friends say they would rather spend a day cuddling at home with their bf, talking to them, making dinner together, watching a movie on the sofa. Girls don't like the feeling of "must follow schedule". They like the feeling of timeless. Now, since you're 15 and she's 14, it might be hard for you guys to still home alone. Why not try a picnic with music in the background, bring something along which she enjoy doing (ex. boardgame, cards, etc). At the end, she'll be happy whatever you planned, because she will appreciate your afford in planning, which not a lot of guys will do.
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reader, Toria +, writes (26 September 2006):
 You know your girlfriend better than anyone else on here so start thinking about what she is into and the things she enjoys doing, with me I've always found that when I didn't see a boyfriend very often the time I did spend with them I just enjoying doing nothing together apart from cuddling and talking and just enjoying every moment of the time together but everyone is different and if you are going to spend the time like this you have to make a big effort into it not becoming sexual as to not leaving this relationship to be on that basis only.
Good luck :o)
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