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female
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51-59,
anonymous
writes:I can't get him out of my head!!I'm totally obsessed with a man who I probably won't see again and who was in jail but now has gone back to his girlfriend!We had a definite attraction for each other and I asked him to call once he got out but he never did!I'm so upset about never being able to see him again - i have no forwarding address for him and I feel like crying all the time not being able to say goodbye and I don't know how to get over him...Please help!!
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reader, Anonny +, writes (9 October 2008):
I must admit - I do not normally get obsessed over men in such a way! - But in my head I can see he is is an ex con who would probably be wrong for me - but my heart tells me he is a beautiful person whatever he's done!!
I must admit that I do tend to fall for the wrong sort of bloke but I honestly don't know why my feelings are so strong for him!! - Besides he must have some good qualities for his girlfriend to be waiting for him!!
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reader, anonymous, writes (9 October 2008): wow wtf? Seriously?
I mean, it says age 36-40, and you still haven't attained wisdom? Seriously missy, this is gunna be a hard one.
Ok, let's start off. Why in the HELL would you even want a guy who was in jail? Doesn't matter what for, but surely, he was in there for a reason. And um, last I checked the good guys don't go to jail.
Therefore I can assume, you don't want a good guy, but rather this bad guy. And last I recall, bad guys do....what? good things? no? oh wait, bad things that's right.
Secondly, seriously, why the hell do you not have control over your heart at your age? YOU control your thoughts, and your state of mind, which reflects your emotions.
Cmon, grow up and move on. Maybe try looking for something other than a bad boy? At your age you should be looking for a guy, who is nice, looking to start a family, has a goal in life, can support you....but whatever it is your life.
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