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36-40,
*hantelle
writes:Does he like me or not? There is a guy who I kissed a while ago, one of his best friends said he liked me but he doesen't want a girlfriend, he got hurt badly a while ago and just wants to have fun with his friends and not get hurt again. We do talk when we are out, but sometimes he doesn't always speak to me.Last week I was with someone else, because I didn't want to just hang around and wait for him to decide when he wants a girlfriend. Last week though when I kissed this other guy in front of him, my friend aID you should of seen his reaction he looked so mad, and upset. And then later on that night he called me a horrible name in a text message for being with the other guy. I do like this guy so much, and I do want to be with him, but my friends tell me to get over him, cos he can't like me very much if he doesn't want to be with me. I'm so confused.
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reader, anonymous, writes (15 August 2007): I agree with the first poster. And you let him know you liked him so he had several chances to make that something more. But he acted like he didn't care enough to want a girlfriend. So you moved on and kissed another guy. There is nothing wrong with what you did. And if he is mad about it, what does he expect? He is being childish and kind of selfish, I think.
And you DESERVE an apology! He is not your boyfriend by his own choice. So he has no right to be mad at you, and call you a name.
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reader, somewhat_anonymous  +, writes (15 August 2007):
Sounds like he is confused himself, probably from being burnt in the past. So he decides to confuse you and wants to keep you in his back pocket.
You can either ride out his emotional instability (not recommended), or make him decide. Make it clear that you aren't about to wait around.
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reader, Danielepew  +, writes (14 August 2007):
 Your friends are right, dear.
This is a man I very much would like to understand. He doesn't want a girlfriend, he doesn't always even talk to you, and he is angry if you are with someone else?
As to calling you a horrible name, you very much deserve an apology. And, if he can't respect you and see where he stands, he's not worth your time.
Move on. This other guy seems to like you, doesn't he?
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