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writes:I'm in a confusion since 8 months regarding whether I love this girl... I dunno from where I should start as a thousand things have messed up badly into each other.In short, I dumped her 5 months back as I wasn't sure about my feelings, I mean I deadly like her companionship as I have never met with such an amazing down to earth and extremely special feel maker girl in my life. I am emotionally attached to her to the core but somewhere I feel I am not romantically attached to her in that way or something kind of... I'm confused and depressed... when she is not there, I am in my blues and miss her badly asking from god for her..... when she is there I feel I am doing injustice to my feelings and to her and keep analysing (rather finding a point or forcing myself to love her for the sake of her) whether I love her or not. We have gone back and forth many times and now my talks don't make any sense to her and she doubts whether I mean it... Please advise.
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reader, CaringGuy  +, writes (21 September 2009):
You're thinking about all this too much. Maybe you're a bit of a commitment phobe or you're not used to getting close to people. You might have to go for couselling, because if she is as good as you say she is, you're going to lose her and really end up feeling bad. Tell her you're sometimes a bit confused but you're trying to get help to make sure you know for sure that she's right. At least that way she won't be confused as to whether you're going to come back or just leave her. Good luck.
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