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writes:My question is, I don't understand whether I love him [still] OR/AND why I'm feeling this way? Here is my story:When I moved [Beginning of school] , I obviously didn't know anyone but i got close to this guy [ill call him batman] who sits beside me. I mean, who wouldn't be? He was my partner in everything! Projects, recycling duties and etc. I flirted with him,A LOT. But I wasn't sure if I meant that or not. A month later [October 12, 2007] he wrote me a note saying: "Ive fallen in love with you''. I think, iloved him too at that time but I told him to stay friends. We stayed friends but he'd flirt with me stuff, and our classmates wold be like "are u guys going out?" since we were ALWAYS together. lol. That went on and on.Then one day, we had a xmas party for our class, our teacher was one of those idc on what u do, ill leave u ppl alone, go on and celebrate kind. He pulled his chair to go beside me [i was not celebrating,lol, i was reading a book]. He said "Awwie, that serious face of yours is so cute, it makes me want to kiss you." that made me go awww inside but i said "Ill slap u if u do." and he replied "It'll be worth it" with his eyes twinkling and his smile reaching his ears. it was so cute. Then suddenly one of my classmates went up to us and said "what's happenin" and so that remained interrupted. then it was time to do recycling, so we went to the kindergarten room to get the papers/bottles etc. The kids had gone home. Nobody was there. The lights were off but we could still see each other. [of course lol.] While i was getting the plastic ready he went closer and closer, slowly, until he was an inch close to me. He asked "Can i hug you?" and I said..."uhh...ermmm..." Then he grabbed me tightly and i felt his heart beating soooo fast. and when he let go of me, he was tearing.After the xmas break, i was ignoring him for 2 weeks! [I have no clue why!] Until at 1AM of January 20, 2008 I went on msn and i saw him online i msged him and said " up so late?" he said "yeah............" I talked to him about personal things until i heard about his dad leaving him, i felt bad. =[At 2:08 am i asked him out. we dated. It is now October 27 [i think,lol] and were still dating.But these few days im liking on this guy and I don't know if im staying wit batman coz i feel bad or i DO love him. There's times where hepisses me off because he bugs me about the guy i like [yeah,he knows,] and he gets so bitchy and mad about it wen hes the one who started it. [i know hes hurting and all but i want him to stop it][The guy i hav a crush on DOESNT know im STILL going out with him, but hes just so nice tht i can't break his heart by saying I AM!]Me and Batman talked about future together, he said he wants to marry me, and i think its sweet and all. But i think its impossible. I can't even believe how young i am to be'loving! I'm 13, hes 14 and turning 14/15. AND OMG, LOOK HOW CHILDISH I AM TO NAME HIM BATMAN =="I'M SO CONFUSE!!!
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reader, Jendorset  +, writes (6 November 2008):
Now [10:35 november 6th 2008], i feel you might just be curious about this secound guy. Spend some quality time with batman and see how you feel. Batman does seem like a nice guy. Message me and let me know how everything goes.
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reader, anonymous, writes (4 November 2008): This is verified as being by the original poster of the questionThank you, i think that helped a bit. lol.
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reader, chandra Mcmillan +, writes (29 October 2008):
 Hunny you sound confused ! Batman is a great name better than Mr X In my opinion. You probably hear this all the time and think the same thing I did at your age "You dont understand" but here it is. At 14 your emotions are running wild your mind and body is changing as is your relationship with guys. If you and Batman like one another then you like each other no advice can change the feelings you get of excitment. Even now I have been in a relationship for 4 years from the age of 16 and my boyfriend still makes me feel like a teenager in love for the first time.
Batman sounds like a charmer, a real Guy Guy you know what I mean, big charming grin, has all the right words, nice looking, bit cocky and he knows it!
He is having all the same changes at the moment as you and it is no suprise he likes you you sound like a really nice young girl.
Think about it and discuss the way you feel with a close and trustworthy friend and tell him if you want to be his gilfriend thats what you want and if not let him know you only want to be his friend and nothing more.
Now I am confused :)Lol
Have fun and enjoy these teenage years and feelings however I have to say this when giving advice on relationships if you do go out with Batman or any other guy please be careful and use protection if you do anything with anyone.Think you will anyway but I have to say it just cause I think if I am giving advice I should.
Hope this helps.Tell us how it goes !
Chandra :)
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