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*ixtytwo
writes:Hey im 18 and i have been with my girlfriend for 2 years and 8 months now. and things have been good. just I'm sick of all the lies and broken promises.. Like i set boudaries for both of us to follow uno like normal things. and she always promises she wont do what i hate but always breaks it or she lies about soemthing and in the end i will find out from someone else and it realli hurts. Like i would find out about shit she has been leiing about recently and up to months ago.. and no she hasnt cheated on me.. well atleast i hope so.. but everything is getting out of hand.. im sick of all the lies and broken promises. and she is suppose to be having my baby in 4 months. and when i ask her why did you lie her response is "i dont no why i did that i was stupid" and she promises she wont do it again but she always does... so what do i do how do i get her to stop all this leiing and broken promises ???because all my trust is gone basically im hurt alot.and it is like i have done something wrong when i havnt i dont deserve to be treated like this. so what should i do ?? .. because i really want a good relationship and to start having trust back in her again.
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reader, sixtytwo +, writes (3 June 2007):
sixtytwo is verified as being by the original poster of the questionso what im suppose to just end it or sumthing.. and she should be commited to me.. thats why you get intoa relationship because of the commitment im just sick of it all i wish she was back to the girl i first knew with no arguments or anything uno.
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reader, nologo  +, writes (2 June 2007):
 Look at this situation from 2 different sides.
You may be viewed by her as overly controling.
"i set boudaries for both of us to follow uno like normal things. and she always promises she wont do what i hate but always breaks it or she lies about soemthing"
Another explanation is that she is probably not commiting the way you expect at the moment because of the following reason:
"she is suppose to be having my baby in 4 months"
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reader, Suzie767  +, writes (2 June 2007):
 this story sounds so much like mine its scary
all my bf has done is lie to me and break promises. we also have a 6 month old baby
im sorry to say this but im ending my relationship with him. i just cant trust him anymore
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