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writes:my friend told me that he loved me yesterday which has been kinda obvious. He told me just as i had to go in, he said he was too embarrassed to tell me. I told him i felt the same cuz i do and have done for ages and i'm definatly sure about this. We are now offically going out. I only saw him at school today for 10min at break becuase he had to go to the dentist in the afternoon. I'm seeing him tonight and feel really nervous i don't know what to say to him or whether to kiss him or not. I can't wait to see him though. Is this normal, what should i do? I really want it to work out. Reply to this Question
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reader, aunty t  +, writes (13 March 2007):
 Wow how exciting for you. This is totally normal and its probably a mixture of excitment and nerves. Just be yourself and see how things go. You can talk about school today, how he got on at the dentist, anything really that comes into your head. But be careful not too waffle, i know i waffle on when im nervous. As for the kiss you will know by his body language if its going to lead to a kiss but if it doesnt dont worry its just a first date. He is probably very nervous too. I hope you have a great time
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reader, anonymous, writes (13 March 2007): It is normal to be nervous on a first date with someone, even if it with your friend. At first conversation might be a bit on the quiet front considering your friendship is just starting to turn into a relationship but remember to relax and just think that this is your friend and despite admitting your feelings towards each other he is the same person as he always was. Thinking this should help talking matters and make your date run smoothly. As for whether to kiss him or not if it feels right and you both want to then go for it otherwise just wait for the relationship to develop. By the way good luck for the date and i hope it goes smoothly. Like the hear how it went.
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reader, Jendorset +, writes (13 March 2007):
Your friends so you have a good basis for your relationship. Whenever i think i am going to be in a situation in which i will feel nervous...i make sure my hair and makeup is edzactly as i want it. That always makes me feel better, then if there does happen to be any awkward silences, at least you know you will be good to look at. Only kiss him if you want to, dont do anything you dont want to. And just relaxxxxx. relax, calm.
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