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writes:hi me and my bf are 16 and have been with each other for 2 and a half months so far!well i have heard that you are with the right person if you can imagine getting married to them and living together etc...well i cant imagine me and my bf getting married and stuff!is this a really bad thing and is it a sign to end the relationship? Reply to this Question
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reader, young mummy +, writes (13 March 2007):
you have only been with your bf 4 2 and a half months!, so i dont blame you for thinkin like that! There is still alot you need to know about him,and him about you.These things take time and its still early days yet, so i wouldnt worry.why would it be a bad sign? and who told that stuff about being with the right person! just take things 1 day at a time, and you'll will no if hes the one.
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reader, TasteofIndia  +, writes (13 March 2007):
 Hey sweetness,
You're sixteen years old. Are you looking for a guy to marry already?!? Right now you should be having fun and dating different kinds of people so that you can know what you are and aren't looking for in a life partner.
It's not a really bad thing that you can't imagine getting married to your boyfriend and it's certainly no reason to end the relationship (unless you just don't like him!)... if you enjoy spending time with him, that's all that matters. You are young and should be having fun dating and getting to know people!
If you really start to lose interest in him and want to be single again, then it's time to end the relationship.
You don't have to spend the rest of your life with him!! You've got your whole life to figure out who gets that honor. In the meantime, have fun.
Good luck, sweetness.
xxIndia
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