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writes: Im in year 10 in high school and 3 weeks ago i was going bout with this lad we only went out for about 4 days but i was so happy. I used to meet him everyday at break and lunch and me, him and his best mate went into town after school a couple of days we just used to talk and have a laugh. Me, My Boyfriend and his best mate were in town one day after school and my boyfriend wanted a photo of me but i didnt want him to take one because i didnt look to good lol!! in the end i just gave in and let him take one of me and him together he set it as his wallpaper which made me so happy lol (i know sounds stupid). He finnished with me four days after he asked me out because he said i was too shy and he didnt know what to say to me, i just said ok ye i understand, but of course i still loved him. He gorgeous seriously lol !! So i thought i should get to know him better and start talking to him more. i went to school today and i saw him he was walking past me totally blanking me so i thought im gonna shout him so i did and he turned round said 'ello' and had the biggest smile on his face. i know it was jst shouting his name but at least its a start! Then i saw him later in the day walking into his lesson with his mates he walked past me and said my name as if to say hello i said hello back and stuck my tongue out at him joking. At lunch he normally stands outside where i go with my mates so i walked outside to walk to my next lesson and he stuck his foot out to trip me up he was messing around obviously then i didnt see him all day. Later on i came online and he was on i said 'hello smelly :P im jkin bbe :P lol' and he said 'u best be lol' we were jst talking normally and he mentioned a lad that lives across the road from me so i said 'he lives across the road from me' and he said 'i know ye he told me' so i said 'why did he tell u that?' he said 'he saw that picture of me and you on my phone on saturday when i went swimming with him and said she lives across the road from me' and i was really really really chuffed that he had kept the photo of me and him. i still really love him i want to tell him how i feel but im scared and hes got a girlfriend but one of his mates told me he werent to bothered about her. What should i do? really really love him :( plz reply :(
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reader, Kated101 +, writes (28 February 2006):
You should definatley mention that you wish the two of you hadn't split up. Just say something like "it's a shame we broke up I had a good time with you" or something along those lines. If you're too shy to say it to his face, maybe you could say it online? Anyway, even if he says something like "well i have a girlfriend now" or anything negative, u can just say "yeh i was just saying it was a laugh hanging out with you" and make it sound like u dont really mind :o)
Seriously tho, just talk to him, be his friend, you sound like a lovely girl and just show him that. He'll soon be beggin for you to come back :op
Hope this helps a bit xKx
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reader, Aiden +, writes (28 February 2006):
I'm Aiden 17, well you really like this guy, if he likes you go for it, even if he has a gf, don't let that stop you, but if he don't want you then there's plenty more fish in the sea u know, u seem like a nice girl and lots of guys like sweet girls, maybe don't be too obsessive about small things like pictures, there's more important things to worry about, but the main question i have for you is do you really love him or do you just fancy the pants off him, because love is a powerful word to use in the situation your in, think about that. Good luck with it ;)
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