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writes:How do i know if this girl at work likes me?There is a girl at work that i am crazy about. I've been working at my current job for almost 2 years. One day, a new girl came in for an interview. She came up to the front desk, and said she was here to see my manager for an interview, and as corny as this sounds, the first instant i saw this girl, i thought she was the most beautiful girl i've ever seen. She got hired, and has been working there ever since. I talk to her ALOT at work. The more i talk to her, the more i see that she's as beautiful on the inside as she is on the outside. She has said somethings to me that kinda hint that she likes me, but at the same time, i'm the type of guy that is kinda naive and hardheaded, and i usually don't pick up on signs like this. Recently we found out that our company will be expanding, and i will have to be transfered to another office that is about half hour drive away. She kept saying things like "I don't want you to go" and "i so sad now". Mind you, she did say it in a playful manner but meant it at the same time. She also told me a few days ago, that if i was still around in a few years, and i wasnt married yet, she would marry me. Which made me think..."would a girl say that to any guy? And also, i know females have a completely different frame of mind than guys. So i just didnt have a clue, what to make of it. As i said, i'm hard headed.Any and all advice would be greatly appreciated, as i am crazy about this girl, but i'm really afraid to move to fast or too soon.
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reader, MarthaZ +, writes (4 March 2006):
 Why don't you hint at her about meeting up for coffee or something soon? If she's interested, you can build something from there!
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reader, anonymous, writes (28 February 2006): She could just be a friendly/flirty person. So, here's my advice: Before you are transferred, get her information (phone number, email address etc.). If she knows that you want to keep in touch, that will give her a hint that you are interested. By getting her information, you'll have more time to figure out how she feels about you too. Then if things keep going in a positive direction, you can ask her out on a real date or tell her that you are developing feelings for her.
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