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writes:I’m seeing this girl who is the most incredible person I’ve ever met!! But I think she is too perfect and too good to be true that i'm skeptical whether to carry on seeing her. Guys what do you think…She is so beautiful, knock out figure, great humour, intelligent, successful, fun to be around, easy to talk to, compassionate, independent and the more I get to know her the more amazing she becomes! She can cook, crafts things, plays bass, she’s a talented artist, she loves playing sports, and she writes stories and poetry. She’s impulsive and unpredictable, so driven and fearless with her life. And she’s only 19!? I’m 22 and I’ve dated quite a lot of girls if I’m honest. But they are nothing compared to her, she just takes my breath away! My friends met he and she clicked with them instantly. The girls said that they felt intimidated by her talents and the guys said girls like her are very rare and I’d be a complete idiot to let her go…But I feel she is too good to be true!! I’m quickly falling in love with her which scares me, because I’ve been in long term relationships before and never fallen this hard this quick! I mean if you read what I said about her do you not think it doesn’t sound right and doesn’t make sense? I don’t know if I should end this, because i just can’t rack my brain how this girl who’s only 19 can be like this!? Reply to this Question
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reader, anonymous, writes (30 August 2011): Hey, my boyfriend was seemingly perfect in the beginning, like out of a fairytale, and my expectations weren't low either. i say to enjoy it, it is better to have loved and lost than to never have loved at all.we've been together for over a year and he relaxed around me as time went by. he has flaws, but he's still perfect for me. give the girl a chance, you would regret more if you didn't, don't live you life wondering about what ifs, do what makes you happy and live with as little regrets as possible.
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reader, eek +, writes (8 August 2011):
 if she is too good to be true count yourself lucky and get to know her. Give it 4 or 6 months together as after that amount of time people tend to relax and you should by then know the real her.
No one is perfect everyone has there flaws. If your lucky though you may have found someone close.
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reader, silenced  +, writes (8 August 2011):
 Ah, my boyfriend seemed too good to be true, and I messed up the relationship by doubting everything and constantly questioning him because I figured something had to be wrong or that I couldn't be good enough. Well, what I ended up doing was screwing up the relationship horribly. Don't end up where I did.
My boyfriend is still the same guy he was before, and even though he's practically perfect (of course he has his faults), he is NOT too good to be true. And if I had never doubted him, our relationship would be perfect right now. We're still working through my dumb issues.
If you think she is amazing, give her a chance. I'm sure you'll regret it if you don't. She may be the best thing that's happened to you. And if it doesn't work out down the road, then so be it, but don't end things now. Good luck.
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reader, shrodingerscat +, writes (8 August 2011):
 So let me get this straight, you're thinking about breaking up with a girl because you're falling in love with her and she's everything you've ever wanted?
Correct me if I'm wrong, but to me that sounds absolutely bonkers. You only find a person like this once in your life, ending it is a really colossally bad idea.
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