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writes: Sometimes i'm worried that my boyfriend might have cheated on me because I can't see him as much as I would like to, which it means that we don't have enough sex. I see him about twice a week and when we're together he's VERY horny. Sometimes I don't know if he would be able to resist to someone else when i'm not around. I don't know what goes through his mind when he's around other girls in school and i'm home (1hour and 15mins away) I heard that the #1 reason why a guy would cheat on his gf is because his needs are not adressed on their relationship (SEX). So since we don't see each other enough, I thought he might be. I'm also concerned because I have NO idea what he's doing when he's college. The school he goes to is not known as a big party college. I heard that it's really hard to party on campus. Also, there are only about 1,500 students, so everybody knows each other. A few people that go to that school have told me they aren't happy to be there and say it's boring. So when my boyfriend tells me that he's in college just playing videogames with his guyfriends I kind of believe him, but then i'm not sure if he's telling me the truth because he NEVER answers his phone while he's there. He calls me back whenever he's back home. Isn't that strange? He's living at home this year, so i'm happy with that because of the lack of trust. He never wanted to take me to his college to meet his friends before and I also find that very suspicious. He said it's gonna be very awkward and boring. Any sugestions? Thank you.
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reader, eddie  +, writes (6 December 2006):
 You can try to convince yourself of all the things you mentioned in your letter. They might be valid points that could swing the chances of him cheating one way or another. But in the end, none of means anything. People cheat with others they meet in CHURCH. It either happens or it doesn't. You trust or you don't. He's reliable or he's not. You'll only know the truth when you know it. You can't control people, things or the future. It's out of your hands. You can only control yourself and the impression you leave with him. If he cheats and you never find out, then ignorance is bliss. If he cheats and you find out, well, at least you know and you can move on.
I've been a worrier in my days. You'll only make yourself sick.
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