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I'm scared I'll do it wrong and he'll dump me! It'll be my first time.

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Question - (22 September 2007) 6 Answers - (Newest, 22 September 2007)
A female Canada age 30-35, anonymous writes:

Im 13 and my Boyfriend wants to make out with me, I want to but im scared I'll do it wrong then he will dump me. All my friends have done it. I dont know what to do, should i try and risk it or should i wait. I would be my first make out!

Mizz. Simone

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A female reader, lily lousia United Kingdom +, writes (22 September 2007):

lily lousia agony auntwhen it comes to it, you will find that things happen quite naturally.

However, you are only 13 and under the legal age. Please dont be in a rush to make out just because all your friends have done it(or say they have!)

have some respect and value for youself as a person. wait a while until you are with someone that wants you for you, not just because they can get what any red blooded male wants from a woman. You as a peson are worth much more than that.

Remember, you body is a temple, look after it and treat is as such, it has to last you many years.

if you do decided to go ahead and make out with this lad, make sure you use protection. you wouldnt want a teenage pregnancy or an STI.

look after YOU! and good luck

lily

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A reader, anonymous, writes (22 September 2007):

youll do fine, trust me :3

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A female reader, rose the relationship solver United Kingdom +, writes (22 September 2007):

rose the relationship solver agony auntIt will come naturally i was 8 when i first made out with a lad and i was embarassed. It is nothing to be ashamed of and to be honest you would enjoy yourself just don't go over board.

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A female reader, anonymous, writes (22 September 2007):

Please don't worry, I'm 15, and my first kiss was with a stranger when i was 14 and i was really scared too, but it went fine. Even though i had never done it before i knew how to do it, and you will too, trust me. It's not at all hard, you just go with the flow!! As seen as he's your bf, i doubt he'll dump you, and if he did then he's not worth it!!! After you've done it you'll wonder why you worried about it at all!!

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A female reader, GS United Kingdom +, writes (22 September 2007):

It will come totally natuaral to you when u first make out. Everyones feels embarrased about there first kiss but theres nothing to worry about, tilt your head the oppisite way that he does, close your eyes and just go with the flow.

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A female reader, GS United Kingdom +, writes (22 September 2007):

It will come totally natuaral to you when u first make out. Everyones feels embarrased about thir first kiss but there's nothing to worry about, tilt your head the oppisite way that he does, close your eyes and just go with the flow.

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