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writes:my two best friends in the world got together, but david (like an older brother to me) and morgan (my best friend ever) doesnt talk to me as much as they did. I know im sounding selfish and all. also i know they just got together and are in the whole lovey dovey phase, but i miss how we would talk all the time. now i have barely anyone to talk with cause they're always all hugging and kissing. dont get me wrong i love that they are together i helped them. yet i miss them so much
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reader, Jo-CX/ +, writes (21 February 2011):
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reader, anonymous, writes (21 February 2011): all i can say to you is that they are your friend for them to be distance from you there should be a reason if you go to them and ask them wahz the matter and you dont feel the same friendship again, they might will tell you why are they behavng like that as you are saying you guys were so close and when you are so close to someone and you do a mistakes it remains and torment you, am not saying you hurt them but u neva noe unknwingly you have hurt em!!!! sit down and has a chat with them
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reader, anonymous, writes (21 February 2011): I know a girl who set up her best friend with a guy. They are really happy together, but fro the first few months they would always sneak off together and hug/kiss somewhere and leave this girl with not many people to talk to, and she felt really lonely without her bestfriend.
But it all worked out for two reasons: a) she started to make friends with more people, and b) The novelty of a new relationship wore off a bit for the happy couple so now they spend less time alone.
you just have to understand that this must be very exciting for your friends, but they won't have forgotten you.
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reader, TasteofIndia +, writes (21 February 2011):
 Hey sweet - been here, done this. It sucks, huh?
They are in the lovey-dovey phase, and the best thing to do is to hang out with them separately. Nothing sucks more than being the third wheel and having to watch your other friends make out while you're like, "so... that movie was pretty good, huh guys? Guys?... awkward...".
Try to spend some time with each of them independently and give them time and space to be by themselves. Eventually they'll move through this phase and will not have to be attached by the lips everywhere they go!
Good luck, sweet!
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