A
female
age
41-50,
*wauntie
writes:If a man cheats on his girlfriend when she is pregnant and you stay with him can you trust he will never do it again? Also if a man doesnt help out around the house or with the kids can he ever change?I have been with my boyfriend for 2 years and when I was 3 months pregnant he cheated with his ex-girlfriend. He swears he messed up and will never do it again. Not sure if I can trust that. Also he has a 3 year old daughter and we just had a son in January, I do everything in the house and for the kids. He doesnt do much, I cant even get him to take the trash out. He says that I get mad cause he doesnt "jump up and do it right away" but he will let it go for days til I do it myself. Is there any hope at all for us? Im getting completely frustrated and ready to walk but I do love him.
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reader, AskSusie  +, writes (8 August 2008):
dwauntie, sounds like your heart is breaking and you are trying to keep it together. The best favour you can do for yourself is walk away from this moron.Dont even bother taking him back when he begs, which he will, because he'll go back to normal.You are an adult, you have a life to live and sharing your life with someone does not mean cleaning up after them. Do you want your children in that environment? And there isn't any hope for the relationship - anyone who tells you otherwise is deluded.For you however, you are hope. You are a woman standing up for your feminine rights and respects. There are hundreds of thousands of fish in the sea that you will fall inlove with and who will fall inlove with you and your children, treating you with the respect and love you deserve.Goodluckasksusie
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