A
female
age
41-50,
*merican_pilot
writes:There is this guy I like, same age but he is my teacher and soon ex teacher, he likes to stare at any chance he gets, he uses the word beautiful very often in my company while looking at me. I run into him frequently and im begining to think he is stalking me, well it feels like he is stalking me, which Im not complaining about on the contrary, because i like him a lot. He tuches my hair, face tells me im beautiful, notice my hair style etc. His friends also stare at me and people im with specially my guy friends. Anyway when I told him I cant stop thinking of him, he was so nervous, but he managed to say he has a girlfriend, still tuching my face and hair...I dont get it, What does he want?It's been three months since and nothing has changed except I know about his girlfriend and im falling for him. Please help me I dont know what to do.Thanks.
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reader, american_pilot +, writes (9 August 2008):
american_pilot is verified as being by the original poster of the questionThanks for all your answers, some of them are appreciated more than others, thanks.
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reader, A Cappella  +, writes (8 August 2008):
 He wants his cake and to eat it too. Distance yourself from him.
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reader, Emilysanswers  +, writes (8 August 2008):
I'm going to ignore the fact he's a teacher as he's the same age as you. I'm just go to assume he's a bit unprofessional and move on.
Well he is clearly giving out signs that he likes you so you have to be strong with him.
If he has a girlfriend then he is stringing you along and it is very wrong and hurtful, you need to tell him to stop. You have already told him you like him so you need to tell him that if he has a girlfriend then you need to stop seeing him and he needs to stop staring and touching and being so forward. Tell him that if he becomes single then he should contact you.
Then you have to play your part too. Apart from your teaching, you have to avoid him, don't let him touch you and ask him why is staring at you when he does. Be unavailable.
If he gets rid of his girlfriend then date him but don't be the other woman, it's never as good as being the girlfriend if you care about him.
Good Luck!! xx
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