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I'm ready and shes scared? Help!

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Question - (13 January 2008) 2 Answers - (Newest, 15 January 2008)
A male Canada age 41-50, anonymous writes:

ok i have a question me and my girlfriends have bin together for a long time and all we do is make out and i have felt her breasts before but its just im ready to do more then just make out and shes not just i askeed her and she said she just doesnt know shes scared and how do i get her and talk to her to over come them please tell me some pointers and ways to let me show her what it feels like so i dont feel umcofurtable anymore.........

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A reader, anonymous, writes (15 January 2008):

How old are you? If you are under 18, you could get into a lot of trouble for having sex with someone who is also under 18.

Also, If she isn't "ready", if you truley care about her, you wouldn't PUSH her into something that she is uncomfortable with.

Be satisfied for now with what you CAN do. When she is ready, you will know it.

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A male reader, Moviefan United States +, writes (14 January 2008):

Moviefan agony auntWell just get her to come over like normal and talk to her and bring it up once she is comfortable. Well im a guy but from what ive heard its one of those things that you cant explain how it feels, kind of like the taste of food. You can say something tastes like chicken but it doesnt really.

And it also doesnt really hurt them when its there first time most of the time, its just not very comfortable. Because your tearing skin, and yes theres blood. And just to warn you you need to make her as comfortable as possible before even attemptingt this, because if there stressed or uncomfortable there vagina can lock you out like fort knocks if they are not ready. And try making her feel good by usinf your hands and such before actually trying to go all the way.

But dont push it on her if she isnt ready either. Just look up more on this subject or have her do it so she can be more comfortable with the idea. Im a virgin and i have tried to learn everything i can on health websites etc. So ill be more comfortable with the idea of sex. It helps, we fear what we dont fully understand!

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