She keeps insulting my country and I don't know how to end this bullying.

A female age 30-35, *handrika Bose writes:

I chat in a chat room where people chats from all over the world. I am from my country. Not only me several people (if you say upon 100%, 40%)are from my country. there is a girl who is from another country, She abuses my country very much, and specially me because i protest the most as i cant hear a word against my country. Whenever she comes online she abuses me and i also don't leave her abuse me, i also fight back. My friends help me a lot from that girl, by abusing her as soon as she starts to abuse me. But one day she told me that if i say sorry to her then she will say to everyone that i am such a good friend and pretty and funny. but i don't want my compliments.I just want the fight to be ended. but i didn't start the fight at all, I didn't even know who was she before she started to insult my country. i am not interested to abuse someone. But i am not among them who can easily hear bad words against their selves. I don't want to say sorry, as i am not going to say sorry. She have to say sorry, because its not my fault. But i want to end this fight also. When i told her to say sorry to me instead she refused and continued the fight. I want to end the fight but i will not say sorry, but she will also not say sorry.So what to do? I am really confused. Please help me!!!!

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