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writes:Hi Aunts and Uncles. I'm confused and need some help cos this is worrying me. I was asked on a date by a guy recently and we've been on a few dates. He calls me his 'new girlfriend'. Firstly, is it a bit early for him to be calling me that? (our first date was mid February). Secondly ( and this is is worrying me more) he split with his long time GF about ten months ago but they talked most days on the phone the whole time and not only that they met up a few times around Christmas and he had thought of getting back with her. He said his main complaint was he wanted her to lose weight from a size 16 to a size 12 (even though she was a 16 when he met her) and he says if she loved him she would have done it! Does he sound unreasonably to you and of more concern to me I guess, is does this make me his rebound?? If he was in touch with her the whole time and they met up around Xmas and even talked after Xmas and thought they might get back together AND he is still angry with her, does this make me his rebound?? Thank you for reading this.
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reader, anonymous, writes (6 March 2010): it sounds like you are sending the message that if they dont get back together you are there waiting.come on,do you have a low opinion of yourself and see this guy as your last chance? forget him !!
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reader, Emilysanswers +, writes (6 March 2010):
Sounds like you are with a pretty weird guy.
Is he in the gym every day looking his best for you?
Or does he often wake up one day and say "drastically alter your appearance for me. If you LOVED ME you'd become anorexic!!!!!"
Either way, sounds like he has a very strange attitude to women. At what point will he turn round and tell you to change your face / body shape / arm length?
I think you can do better.
Good Luck!! xx
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